来

lái v.

To come closer from another place; to arrive at the speaker's position. To happen or occur; to begin doing something; to bring, give, or offer (e.g., "come on").

Common Usage & Traps

  • 来我家 (lái wǒ jiā) — come to my home
  • 来学校 (lái xuéxiào) — come to school
  • 来中国 (lái Zhōngguó) — come to China
  • 来一杯咖啡 (lái yì bēi kāfēi) — I'll have a coffee
  • 来晚了 (lái wǎn le) — came late
  • 你去我家 你来我家

    When you invite someone to your own home, 来 pulls them toward you. 去 sounds like you are sending them away.

  • 他昨天来我家 他昨天来我家了

    A finished visit usually needs 了 after the place phrase. Without it, the sentence sounds unfinished on its own.

When do I use 来 instead of 去?

来 means toward the speaker or listener; 去 means away from the speaker.

Use 来 when someone moves closer to the person speaking or the person being spoken to. Use 去 when someone moves away from the speaker to another place. If you invite a friend to your home, say 你来我家. If you leave your home for the office, say 我去公司. The speaker is the center, not the destination in English.
DimensionNaturalAvoid
Inviting someone to you你来我家你去我家
Going somewhere away from you我去公司我来公司
Someone comes to you他来了他去了

Where does 了 go when I say someone came to my house yesterday?

Put 了 after the place phrase: 他昨天来我家了.

When a visit is finished, 了 usually lands after the whole phrase, not right after 来. So 他昨天来我家了 sounds complete and natural. A bare 他昨天来我家 sounds unfinished unless more words follow, like 他昨天来我家吃饭. With the completed-action 了, let the place phrase finish first.
DimensionNaturalAvoid
Finished visit他昨天来我家了他昨天来我家
Visit plus meal他昨天来我家吃饭了他昨天来我家了吃饭
Invitation now你来我家吧你来我家了

Why does 来一杯咖啡 mean 'I'll have a coffee'?

来 here means 'I'll take' or 'bring me', not 'come'.

At a cafe or restaurant, 来 turns into a quick way to order. You say 来一杯咖啡 or 来碗面 to the staff. It is not about walking toward the counter. The pattern is 来 + number + item.
DimensionNaturalAvoid
Ordering a coffee来一杯咖啡我来咖啡
Ordering noodles来碗面我来面
Meaning来 = I'll have来 = I come here

Appears in Stories 12 stories

Real context sentences across different daily scenarios and graded readings.

《我们一家》 (A Family Dinner at the Restaurant) HSK 2
~6 min read 401 chars
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In this warm dialogue, a parent introduces their family at a restaurant. A teacher gently corrects common mistakes about family words and names, making it perfect for HSK 2 learners.

  • 你也 来 这家饭店吃饭?

  • A:不是,我和我的家人 来 吃饭。

《五块钱》 (The Five-Yuan Gift) HSK 1
~6 min read 414 chars
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This heartwarming story shows how a small act of kindness can be passed on. Follow Gao Xianming as he learns an important lesson about generosity in his new city.

  • 高先明第一天 来 中国。

  • 一个月后,高先明 来 这里坐车。

《友好的高友朋》 (A Friendly New Friend at Work) HSK 2
~4 min read 243 chars
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Meet Gao Youpeng, a friendly Beijing coworker who welcomes the narrator with local dishes and a simple language-exchange plan. This warm HSK 2 story is perfect for first readings about work and friendship.

  • 他也在中为公司工作,但是因为周一我 来 公司的时候,他去上海了,所以我没有看见他。

《热面条》 (Hot Noodles on a Cold Night) HSK 1
~5 min read 399 chars
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Follow Dazhong, a busy worker in China, as he finds warmth and kindness at a small noodle shop. Practice everyday words for food, weather, and expressing gratitude.

  • 老先生看见大中 来 了,非常高兴。

  • 老先生对大中说:“你 来 了!

《饥饿的深意》 (The Hidden Meaning of Hunger) HSK 7
~11 min read 1243 chars
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Why would a millionaire leave a table of lobster and wagyu untouched? This story explores the hidden rules of business dining and the true cost of staying alert.

  • 他摇下车窗跟我说了句,改天有空儿 来 我办公室坐坐。

  • 你 来 了我让食堂给你炒个蛋炒饭,正经吃的。

《找“大白”》 (Looking for Big White) HSK 1
~5 min read 361 chars
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A young man helps an old man look for his cat. But the real surprise is why the old man wanted to find the cat. Read on to learn about kindness and friendship.

  • 白天明对老先生说:“老先生,我天天都 来 这里和您说话。

《大学者和小人物》 (The Scholar and the Cookie Seller) HSK 5
~8 min read 882 chars
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Discover how a simple letter from a cookie seller led to an unexpected friendship with a famous scholar. This heartwarming story explores kindness and connection across social divides.

  • 胡之适接过饼干,微笑着拿起一个便吃,脸上现出近几年 来 很少见的欢愉。

  • 一切治疗费由我 来 付。

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