n.
child; kid
小孩儿
Common Usage & Traps
- 一个小孩儿 — a child
- 问小孩儿 — to ask a child
- 小孩儿几岁 — how old is the child
- 小孩儿们 — the kids
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一个小孩儿们一个小孩儿 / 一群小孩儿们 already means 'more than one', so adding a number double-marks the plural and breaks.
Asking a kid's age, do you say 小孩儿几岁 or 小孩儿多大?
几岁 is for little kids; switch to 多大 once they hit their teens.
几岁 is what you ask a little kid, roughly under ten. Once someone is a teenager, Chinese speakers use 多大 instead. Asking 你几岁 to a 40-year-old sounds like you're babying them. It's not grammar that breaks here, it's the social read. “问小孩儿，你几岁？” (To ask a child, say 'How old are you?') ── [《问问题》](/read/asking-questions-daily-life#s5)
| Dimension | Natural | Avoid |
|---|---|---|
| Asking a 6-year-old | 你几岁？ | 你多大？ |
| Asking a coworker | 你多大？ | 你几岁？ |
| Asking a grandma | 您多大年纪？ | 你几岁？ |
What's the real difference between 小孩儿 and 孩子?
小孩儿 sounds casual and northern; 孩子 is the neutral, safe choice anywhere.
小孩儿 carries a spoken, northern flavor thanks to that 儿 ending. 孩子 works in writing, formal speech, and all over the south. In Beijing you'll hear 小孩儿 constantly, but typing it in a business email looks off. Same meaning, different room temperature.
| Dimension | Natural | Avoid |
|---|---|---|
| Northern casual chat | 小孩儿 | 孩子 (sounds a touch formal) |
| Writing or the south | 孩子 | 小孩儿 (fine, just northern) |
| Talking to a kid's face | 小朋友 | 小孩儿 (can feel distant) |
Can you say 小孩儿们 for 'the kids'?
小孩儿们 means 'the kids', but never put a number in front of it.
们 already signals 'more than one', so it stands in for the number itself. 小孩儿们 is fine when you mean the kids in general. The moment you give a specific count, drop 们 and let the number do the work. Stacking both is the classic over-plural mistake.
| Dimension | Natural | Avoid |
|---|---|---|
| The kids (in general) | 小孩儿们 | 一个小孩儿们 |
| Three of them | 三个小孩儿 | 三个小孩儿们 |
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Before you read, think about the questions you ask every day. This simple poem shows you how to ask age, price, time, and more in friendly Chinese.
- Scene #1
问 小孩儿 ，你几岁？
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