我、你、您、他、她、我们、你们、他们、她们、它、它们、大家

HSK-G-9
HSK 1 词类 代词
Camera Formula 我、你、您、他、她、我们、你们、他们、她们、它、它们、大家

The Social Respect Dial: Choosing the right distance and honor.

Use 您 for elders, clients, and teachers to show respect; preserve 你 for friends, peers, and younger people.

Common Usage & Traps

Why does 你 sound rude to an older stranger while 您 sounds fine?

您 is the polite 'you'. Use it with elders, bosses, and strangers, and you are safe.

English has only one 'you', so learners copy 你 everywhere and end up sounding blunt. With an older stranger, a customer, or your boss's parents, 您 signals basic manners. With friends, kids, and classmates, 您 sounds cold, like calling your buddy 'sir'. Rule of thumb: if English would say 'sir' or 'ma'am', say 您. A polite thank-you to an older man looks like this: “高先明对老先生说:‘谢谢您!’” ── 《五块钱》.
Situation / PatternFormulaNaturalAvoid
Friend, classmate, kid你你好,最近忙吗?您好,最近忙吗?
Older stranger, teacher, boss您谢谢您!谢谢你!
Staff to a customer您您要什么?你要什么?
Talking to a small child你你真棒!您真棒!

Can I say 他们 for a group of women?

Yes. 他们 covers any group unless you deliberately want to flag 'all female'.

他们 is the default for any crowd: mixed, all men, or even all women. 她们 only shows up when the speaker wants to stress that every single person is female. In everyday speech, a table of ten women usually gets 他们, and nobody flinches. If you use 她们 for a mixed group, listeners hear you making a point about gender.
Situation / PatternFormulaNaturalAvoid
Mixed group他们他们都很忙。她们 for a mixed group
All men他们他们都是老师。她们
All women, casual talk他们他们到了吗?她们 (unless you mean to stress it)
Unknown group他们他们几点来?她们

When do I say 它 instead of leaving the object out?

Chinese usually drops 'it'. Say 它 only when your listener cannot guess what you mean.

English 'I bought it yesterday' forces an 'it' into the sentence. Chinese just says 我昨天买了, because the listener already knows what 'it' is. Shoving 它 into every sentence makes you sound like you are stabbing a finger at one object. Reach for 它 when talking about an animal, or when you are singling out one thing among several.
Situation / PatternFormulaNaturalAvoid
Clear context, English 'it'Subject + Verb我昨天买了。我昨天买了它。
One thing among several它这个便宜,买它吧。leaving it out when it is unclear
An animal它别喂它。别喂。
Unknown to the listener它 / full noun它坏了。坏了。

Is 大家 the same as 我们?

No. 大家 means 'everyone here', and it pulls in people outside your group.

我们 is your own side: your team, your family, your classmates sitting together. 大家 is the whole room, everybody present, including the people who are not with you. Say 大家 to a room and you are speaking to everyone in it. Say 我们 to that same room and you quietly leave half the listeners out.
Situation / PatternFormulaNaturalAvoid
Your own team only我们我们组周五开会。大家周五开会。
Whole room, everyone present大家大家安静一下。我们安静一下。
Greeting a crowd大家大家早上好!我们早上好!
Teacher to the class大家大家一起读。我们一起读 (only your side)

Appears in Stories 19 stories

《谢谢你来看我》 Rain, Thank You for Visiting Me
HSK 1 ~2 min read 152 chars
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Before you read, close your eyes and imagine a rainy afternoon. This story uses simple HSK 1 words to show how rain can become a talking friend.

  • 我在家看天。

    I'm at home looking at the sky.

  • 我坐在门口,看雨。

    I sit at the doorway, watching the rain.

  • 听——我听见雨说话。

    Listen — I can hear the rain talking.

  • 我们,我和雨,说话。

    We — the rain and I — are talking.

  • 雨说:你好,你好。

    The rain says, 'Hello, hello.'

  • 我说:你好,你好。

    I say, 'Hello, hello.'

  • 雨,是我的朋友。

    The rain is my friend.

  • 我是雨的朋友。

    I am the rain's friend.

  • 我喜欢雨。

    I like the rain.

  • 雨喜欢我。

    The rain likes me.

  • 我对雨说:谢谢!

    I say to the rain, 'Thank you!'

  • 谢谢你来看我。

    Thank you for coming to see me.

  • 明天我还来看你。

    I'll come see you again tomorrow.

《你喜欢看老电影吗?》 Do You Like Old Movies?
HSK 2 ~3 min read 224 chars
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In this dialogue, two people chat while waiting outside a cinema. You'll hear common phrases for talking about hobbies, sports, and movie preferences.

  • 问一下儿,你在等人吗?

    Quick question: are you waiting for someone?

  • 我在等朋友看电影。

    I'm waiting for a friend to see a movie.

  • 她去洗手间了。

    She went to the restroom.

  • A:可以问你几个问题吗?

    A: Can I ask you a few questions?

  • A:你喜欢踢足球和打篮球吗?

    A: Do you like playing soccer and basketball?

  • B:因为我不喜欢运动,所以这两个我都不喜欢。

    B: Since I'm not into sports, I don't like either of them.

  • 我有时会去游泳。

    Sometimes I go swimming.

  • 最近我每周都游两三次,但看电影是我最大的爱好!

    Lately I swim two or three times a week, but watching movies is my biggest hobby!

  • 😄A:你喜欢看老电影还是新电影?

    A: Do you prefer watching old movies or new movies?

  • 我最喜欢看黑白老电影。

    My favorite thing is watching old black-and-white movies.

  • 今天我们就要看一个外国黑白老电影。

    Today we're going to watch a foreign black-and-white old movie.

  • 我朋友到了。

    My friend is here.

《哪里哪里!》 Where is 'Where'?
HSK 1 ~6 min read 432 chars
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Chat about where friends study Chinese while exploring 哪儿 and 哪里 across Beijing and Shanghai. Practice asking “where”, talking about “here” and “there”, and using the modest reply 哪里哪里 to accept a compliment.

  • 我听钱老师说,“where”是“哪儿”。

    I heard Teacher Qian say that 'where' is 'nǎr'.

  • 你在哪儿学汉语?

    Where do you study Chinese?

  • 老包:我在上海学汉语。

    Lao Bao: I study Chinese in Shanghai.

  • 小米:你呢?

    Xiaomi: What about you?

  • 大山,你在哪里学汉语?

    Dashan, where do you study Chinese?

  • 大山:我在北京学汉语。

    Dashan: I study Chinese in Beijing.

  • 小米:你们知道吗?

    Xiaomi: Do you all know?

  • 我觉得老上海人喜欢说“这里”、“那里”和“哪里”,不喜欢说“……

    I think older Shanghai people like to say 'zhèlǐ', 'nàlǐ', and 'nǎlǐ', but don't like to say '...

  • 他们也说“这儿”、“那儿”。

    They also say 'zhèr' and 'nàr'.

  • 大山:小米,你的汉语真好。

    Dashan: Xiaomi, your Chinese is really good.

  • 大山说我的汉语很好。

    Dashan said my Chinese is very good.

  • 我要说“哪里!

    I want to say, 'Nǎlǐ!'

《我的家人(2)》 My Family Members
HSK 1 ~2 min read 141 chars
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This playful rhyme helps you learn family words in Chinese. Practice saying who's who with simple questions and answers!

  • 小朋友,我问问你,这个小朋友,他是谁?

    Little one, let me ask you: who is this little boy?

  • 这个小朋友是我哥。

    This little boy is my older brother.

  • 那个小孩子,他是谁?

    And that little kid—who is he?

  • 那个小孩子是我弟。

    That little kid is my younger brother.

  • 小朋友,我再问你,这个女孩子,她是谁?

    Little one, let me ask you again: who is this little girl?

  • 这个女孩子是我姐。

    This little girl is my older sister.

  • 那个女孩儿,她是谁?

    And that little girl—who is she?

  • 那个女孩儿是我妹。

    That little girl is my younger sister.

  • 哥哥和弟弟,姐姐和妹妹也是我家人,也是好朋友。

    My older brother and younger brother, my older sister and younger sister—they are also my family, and good friends too.

《七号桌的客人》 The Guest at Table Seven
HSK 1 ~5 min read 396 chars
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This heartwarming story reveals the quiet devotion of a father. As you read, notice the repeated actions and how a simple cup of tea becomes meaningful.

  • 他一个人坐在那儿,看外边。

    He sits there alone, looking outside.

  • 老先生看看大中,对大中说:“五年前,我儿子也在这家饭店工作。

    The old gentleman looks at Dazhong and says, 'Five years ago, my son also worked at this restaurant.'

  • 他天天晚上九点下班,我坐在七号桌子前看他。

    He used to get off work at nine every night, and I would sit at Table 7 and watch him.

  • 现在,他去北京工作了。

    Now he has gone to Beijing to work.

  • 我天天坐在这儿看外边,觉得我儿子还会回来。”

    I sit here every day looking outside, feeling that my son will still come back.

  • 他对老先生说:“老先生,您来了!

    He says to the old gentleman, 'Sir, you're here!'

  • 七号桌天天是您的。

    Table 7 is yours every day.

  • 今天,热茶做好了,请您喝。”

    Today, the hot tea is ready. Please drink it.'

《谢谢您请》 The Day 'Please' Stayed Home
HSK 1 ~2 min read 132 chars
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Everyday greetings are a gateway to natural Chinese. Practice time-based hellos like “早上好” and “晚安,” learn to address teachers with the respectful “您,” and see how families skip formalities to speak warmly at home.

  • 你好!

    Hello!

  • 您好!

    Hello, sir/madam!

  • 大家好!

    Hello, everyone!

  • 看见老师说您好!

    When you see a teacher, say 'Hello, sir/madam!'

  • 先生、女士也说“您”。

    Gentlemen and ladies also say '您' (the polite form of 'you').

  • 你好!

    Hello!

  • 您好!

    Hello, sir/madam!

  • 家人、朋友关系好,“谢谢”、“您”、“请”太客气,在家说话不客气,可以不说“您和请”。

    With family and close friends, 'thank you,' '您,' and 'please' are too formal. At home, people speak informally, so you don't have to say '您' or 'please'.

《五块钱》 The Five-Yuan Gift
HSK 1 ~6 min read 414 chars
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This heartwarming story shows how a small act of kindness can be passed on. Follow Gao Xianming as he learns an important lesson about generosity in his new city.

  • 高先明对老先生说:“谢谢您!

    Gao Xianming said to the old gentleman, 'Thank you!'

  • 我明天给您钱。”

    'I'll give you the money tomorrow.'

  • 有人没有钱坐车,你给他这五块钱吧。”

    If someone doesn't have money for the bus, give them this five yuan.

  • 我明天给你钱。”

    'I'll give you the money tomorrow.'

《问问题》 Asking Questions
HSK 1 ~2 min read 107 chars
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Before you read, think about the questions you ask every day. This simple poem shows you how to ask age, price, time, and more in friendly Chinese.

  • 问同学,你多大?

    To ask a classmate: How old are you?

  • 问小孩儿,你几岁?

    To ask a little kid: How old are you?

  • 看电视,他是谁?

    Who is he on TV?

《找“大白”》 Looking for Big White
HSK 1 ~5 min read 361 chars
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A young man helps an old man look for his cat. But the real surprise is why the old man wanted to find the cat. Read on to learn about kindness and friendship.

  • 我的大白猫叫‘大白'。

    My big white cat is named Dabai.

  • 听见有人和我说话,我觉得非常高兴。”

    When I hear someone talking with me, I feel very happy.

  • 白天明对老先生说:“老先生,我天天都来这里和您说话。

    Bai Tianming said to the old man, 'Sir, I'll come here every day to talk with you.'

《我的家人(1)》 My Family Members
HSK 1 ~2 min read 116 chars
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Before you read, meet the grandparents! This rhyming chant helps you practice the different names for maternal and paternal grandparents in Chinese. Listen to the beat and repeat.

  • 宝宝,宝宝,我问你,爸爸的爸爸叫什么?

    Baby, baby, let me ask you: what do you call Daddy's daddy?

  • 宝宝,宝宝,我再问你妈妈的爸爸叫什么?

    Baby, baby, let me ask you again: what do you call Mommy's daddy?

  • 爷爷和奶奶,姥爷和姥姥,他们都爱我,我也爱他们。

    Grandpa and Grandma on Dad's side, and Grandpa and Grandma on Mom's side—they all love me, and I love them too.

《去上海》 Train or Plane to Shanghai
HSK 2 ~2 min read 151 chars
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Meet Xiao Shang, who is heading back to Shanghai. She compares two ways to travel and tells us why she prefers the slower one. This story helps you practice comparing transportation in simple Chinese.

  • 她是中国人。

    She is Chinese.

  • 她的老家是上海。

    Her hometown is Shanghai.

  • 她是上海人。

    She is from Shanghai.

《苹果十九》 Waiting for iPhone 19
HSK 1 ~2 min read 99 chars
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Read this short story about people waiting in the rain for a new phone. You will practice numbers, time, and everyday vocabulary.

  • 晚上,我坐出租车去大学那边的苹果商店买手机。

    In the evening, I took a taxi to the Apple Store near the university to buy a phone.

  • 下雨了,大家都没有回去。

    It started to rain, but no one went home.

  • 明天苹果十九出来了,大家都想做第一个买到苹果十九的人。

    The iPhone 19 comes out tomorrow, and everyone wants to be the first to buy one.

《很贵的苹果》 The Expensive Apples
HSK 1 ~2 min read 137 chars
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This short, simple story follows a shopper's trip to the supermarket to buy apples. You'll learn useful vocabulary for shopping, prices, and comparing things.

  • 她们说小苹果非常好吃。

    They said the small apples were really delicious.

  • 她说她不知道。

    She said she didn't know.

《一到十二月》 Twelve Months of Love
HSK 1 ~2 min read 108 chars
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Welcome! This short poem helps you practice the months, weekdays, and mealtimes in Chinese. Read it aloud and notice the rhythm. You already know many of these words!

  • 一年十二月,爱你也想你。

    A year has twelve months; I love you and miss you too.

  • 星期一到六,天天喜欢你。

    From Monday to Saturday, I like you every day.

《这个苹果不是中国苹果》 Six Apples, Two Origins
HSK 1 ~1 min read 66 chars
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In this easy story, you will follow a simple trip to the supermarket to buy apples. Practice numbers, question words, and nationalities in a real-life shopping context.

  • 她说她不知道。

    She said she didn't know.

《苹果十五》 Buying an iPhone in Beijing
HSK 1 ~1 min read 43 chars
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This short story follows a simple shopping trip in Beijing. You will learn words for buying a phone in Chinese.

  • 在北京的一个商店,我买了一个手机。

    I bought a phone at a store in Beijing.

《星期七》 The Week Without Seven
HSK 1 ~2 min read 82 chars
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Before you read, try clapping the rhythm. This poem introduces the days of the week and a fun secret: Chinese has two names for Sunday, but no 'Week Seven'!

  • 你想知道星期几,可以问他星期几。

    If you want to know what day of the week it is, you can ask him.

《你好和再见》 Hello and Goodbye
HSK 1 ~1 min read 46 chars
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Before you start learning Chinese, master the most important phrases: greetings. This short dialogue shows you how to say hello and goodbye, and how to respond politely.

  • 你好!

    Hello!

《三号病房的苹果》 The Apple in Ward Three
HSK 1 ~3 min read 191 chars
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Enjoy this simple story about a patient and a mysterious apple. It shows how a small act of kindness can make someone feel at home, and you'll learn key words for feelings and daily life.

  • 桌子上有老先生写的字:“我的朋友,你天天都好!”

    On the table was a note written by the old man: "My friend, may you be well every day!"

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