我、你、您、他、她、我们、你们、他们、她们、它、它们、大家

HSK-G-9
HSK 1 词类 代词

Why does 你 sound rude to an older stranger while 您 sounds fine?

您 is the polite 'you'. Use it with elders, bosses, and strangers, and you are safe.

English has only one 'you', so learners copy 你 everywhere and end up sounding blunt. With an older stranger, a customer, or your boss's parents, 您 signals basic manners. With friends, kids, and classmates, 您 sounds cold, like calling your buddy 'sir'. Rule of thumb: if English would say 'sir' or 'ma'am', say 您. A polite thank-you to an older man looks like this: “高先明对老先生说:‘谢谢您!’” ── [《五块钱》](/read/five-yuan-kindness).

Situation / PatternFormulaNaturalAvoid
Friend, classmate, kid你好,最近忙吗?您好,最近忙吗?
Older stranger, teacher, boss谢谢您!谢谢你!
Staff to a customer您要什么?你要什么?
Talking to a small child你真棒!您真棒!

Can I say 他们 for a group of women?

Yes. 他们 covers any group unless you deliberately want to flag 'all female'.

他们 is the default for any crowd: mixed, all men, or even all women. 她们 only shows up when the speaker wants to stress that every single person is female. In everyday speech, a table of ten women usually gets 他们, and nobody flinches. If you use 她们 for a mixed group, listeners hear you making a point about gender.

Situation / PatternFormulaNaturalAvoid
Mixed group他们他们都很忙。她们 for a mixed group
All men他们他们都是老师。她们
All women, casual talk他们他们到了吗?她们 (unless you mean to stress it)
Unknown group他们他们几点来?她们

When do I say 它 instead of leaving the object out?

Chinese usually drops 'it'. Say 它 only when your listener cannot guess what you mean.

English 'I bought it yesterday' forces an 'it' into the sentence. Chinese just says 我昨天买了, because the listener already knows what 'it' is. Shoving 它 into every sentence makes you sound like you are stabbing a finger at one object. Reach for 它 when talking about an animal, or when you are singling out one thing among several.

Situation / PatternFormulaNaturalAvoid
Clear context, English 'it'Subject + Verb我昨天买了。我昨天买了它。
One thing among several这个便宜,买它吧。leaving it out when it is unclear
An animal别喂它。别喂。
Unknown to the listener它 / full noun它坏了。坏了。

Is 大家 the same as 我们?

No. 大家 means 'everyone here', and it pulls in people outside your group.

我们 is your own side: your team, your family, your classmates sitting together. 大家 is the whole room, everybody present, including the people who are not with you. Say 大家 to a room and you are speaking to everyone in it. Say 我们 to that same room and you quietly leave half the listeners out.

Situation / PatternFormulaNaturalAvoid
Your own team only我们我们组周五开会。大家周五开会。
Whole room, everyone present大家大家安静一下。我们安静一下。
Greeting a crowd大家大家早上好!我们早上好!
Teacher to the class大家大家一起读。我们一起读 (only your side)

Appears in Stories 20 stories

《谢谢你来看我》 Rain, Thank You for Visiting Me
HSK 1 ~2 min read 152 chars
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Before you read, close your eyes and imagine a rainy afternoon. This story uses simple HSK 1 words to show how rain can become a talking friend.

  • 在家

    I'm at home looking at the sky.

  • 坐在门口

    I sit at the doorway, watching the rain.

  • ——听见说话

    Listen — I can hear the rain talking.

  • 我们说话

    We — the rain and I — are talking.

  • The rain says, 'Hello, hello.'

  • I say, 'Hello, hello.'

  • 我的朋友

    The rain is my friend.

  • 雨的朋友

    I am the rain's friend.

  • 喜欢

    I like the rain.

  • 喜欢

    The rain likes me.

  • 谢谢

    I say to the rain, 'Thank you!'

  • 谢谢看我

    Thank you for coming to see me.

  • 明天看你

    I'll come see you again tomorrow.

《你喜欢看老电影吗?》 Do You Like Old Movies?
HSK 2 ~3 min read 224 chars
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In this dialogue, two people chat while waiting outside a cinema. You'll hear common phrases for talking about hobbies, sports, and movie preferences.

  • 问一下儿等人

    Quick question: are you waiting for someone?

  • 朋友电影

    I'm waiting for a friend to see a movie.

  • 洗手间

    She went to the restroom.

  • 可以几个问题

    A: Can I ask you a few questions?

  • 喜欢足球篮球

    A: Do you like playing soccer and basketball?

  • 因为喜欢运动所以喜欢

    B: Since I'm not into sports, I don't like either of them.

  • 有时游泳

    Sometimes I go swimming.

  • 最近每周两三次电影最大爱好

    Lately I swim two or three times a week, but watching movies is my biggest hobby!

  • 😄喜欢电影还是电影

    A: Do you prefer watching old movies or new movies?

  • 喜欢黑白电影

    My favorite thing is watching old black-and-white movies.

  • 今天我们就要外国黑白电影

    Today we're going to watch a foreign black-and-white old movie.

  • 朋友到了

    My friend is here.

《哪里哪里!》 Where is 'Where'?
HSK 1 ~6 min read 432 chars
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Chat about where friends study Chinese while exploring 哪儿 and 哪里 across Beijing and Shanghai. Practice asking “where”, talking about “here” and “there”, and using the modest reply 哪里哪里 to accept a compliment.

  • 老师where哪儿

    I heard Teacher Qian say that 'where' is 'nǎr'.

  • 哪儿汉语

    Where do you study Chinese?

  • 老包上海汉语

    Lao Bao: I study Chinese in Shanghai.

  • 小米

    Xiaomi: What about you?

  • 大山哪里汉语

    Dashan, where do you study Chinese?

  • 大山北京汉语

    Dashan: I study Chinese in Beijing.

  • 小米你们知道

    Xiaomi: Do you all know?

  • 觉得上海人喜欢这里那里哪里喜欢……

    I think older Shanghai people like to say 'zhèlǐ', 'nàlǐ', and 'nǎlǐ', but don't like to say '...

  • 他们这儿那儿

    They also say 'zhèr' and 'nàr'.

  • 大山小米汉语真好

    Dashan: Xiaomi, your Chinese is really good.

  • 大山汉语很好

    Dashan said my Chinese is very good.

  • 要说哪里

    I want to say, 'Nǎlǐ!'

《我的家人(2)》 My Family Members
HSK 1 ~2 min read 141 chars
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This playful rhyme helps you learn family words in Chinese. Practice saying who's who with simple questions and answers!

  • 小朋友问问这个小朋友

    Little one, let me ask you: who is this little boy?

  • 这个小朋友我哥

    This little boy is my older brother.

  • 那个小孩子

    And that little kid—who is he?

  • 那个小孩子我弟

    That little kid is my younger brother.

  • 小朋友这个女孩子

    Little one, let me ask you again: who is this little girl?

  • 这个女孩子我姐

    This little girl is my older sister.

  • 那个女孩儿

    And that little girl—who is she?

  • 那个女孩儿我妹

    That little girl is my younger sister.

  • 哥哥弟弟姐姐妹妹也是家人也是好朋友

    My older brother and younger brother, my older sister and younger sister—they are also my family, and good friends too.

《七号桌的客人》 The Guest at Table Seven
HSK 1 ~5 min read 396 chars
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This heartwarming story reveals the quiet devotion of a father. As you read, notice the repeated actions and how a simple cup of tea becomes meaningful.

  • 一个人坐在那儿外边

    He sits there alone, looking outside.

  • 老先生看看大中大中五年儿子这家饭店工作

    The old gentleman looks at Dazhong and says, 'Five years ago, my son also worked at this restaurant.'

  • 天天晚上九点下班坐在七号桌子

    He used to get off work at nine every night, and I would sit at Table 7 and watch him.

  • 现在北京工作

    Now he has gone to Beijing to work.

  • 天天坐在这儿外边觉得儿子回来

    I sit here every day looking outside, feeling that my son will still come back.

  • 老先生老先生

    He says to the old gentleman, 'Sir, you're here!'

  • 七号天天

    Table 7 is yours every day.

  • 今天热茶做好

    Today, the hot tea is ready. Please drink it.'

《谢谢您请》 The Day 'Please' Stayed Home
HSK 1 ~2 min read 132 chars
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Everyday greetings are a gateway to natural Chinese. Practice time-based hellos like “早上好” and “晚安,” learn to address teachers with the respectful “您,” and see how families skip formalities to speak warmly at home.

  • Hello!

  • Hello, sir/madam!

  • 大家

    Hello, everyone!

  • 看见老师您好

    When you see a teacher, say 'Hello, sir/madam!'

  • 先生女士

    Gentlemen and ladies also say '您' (the polite form of 'you').

  • 你好

    Hello!

  • 您好

    Hello, sir/madam!

  • 家人朋友关系谢谢客气在家说话不客气可以不说

    With family and close friends, 'thank you,' '您,' and 'please' are too formal. At home, people speak informally, so you don't have to say '您' or 'please'.

《五块钱》 The Five-Yuan Gift
HSK 1 ~6 min read 414 chars
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This heartwarming story shows how a small act of kindness can be passed on. Follow Gao Xianming as he learns an important lesson about generosity in his new city.

  • 高先明老先生谢谢

    Gao Xianming said to the old gentleman, 'Thank you!'

  • 明天

    'I'll give you the money tomorrow.'

  • 有人没有坐车五块钱

    If someone doesn't have money for the bus, give them this five yuan.

  • 明天

    'I'll give you the money tomorrow.'

《问问题》 Asking Questions
HSK 1 ~2 min read 107 chars
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Before you read, think about the questions you ask every day. This simple poem shows you how to ask age, price, time, and more in friendly Chinese.

  • 同学多大

    To ask a classmate: How old are you?

  • 小孩儿

    To ask a little kid: How old are you?

  • 电视

    Who is he on TV?

《热面条》 Hot Noodles on a Cold Night
HSK 1 ~5 min read 399 chars
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Follow Dazhong, a busy worker in China, as he finds warmth and kindness at a small noodle shop. Practice everyday words for food, weather, and expressing gratitude.

  • 大中吃好面条老先生谢谢面条好吃

    After finishing the noodles, Dazhong says to the elderly man, 'Thank you. The noodles are delicious.'

  • 老先生大中

    The elderly man says to Dazhong, 'You're here!'

  • 老先生大中知道天天晚上

    The elderly man says to Dazhong, 'I know you come every evening.'

《找“大白”》 Looking for Big White
HSK 1 ~5 min read 361 chars
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A young man helps an old man look for his cat. But the real surprise is why the old man wanted to find the cat. Read on to learn about kindness and friendship.

  • 我的大白猫大白'

    My big white cat is named Dabai.

  • 听见有人和我说话觉得非常高兴

    When I hear someone talking with me, I feel very happy.

  • 白天明老先生老先生天天这里说话

    Bai Tianming said to the old man, 'Sir, I'll come here every day to talk with you.'

《我的家人(1)》 My Family Members
HSK 1 ~2 min read 116 chars
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Before you read, meet the grandparents! This rhyming chant helps you practice the different names for maternal and paternal grandparents in Chinese. Listen to the beat and repeat.

  • 宝宝宝宝爸爸爸爸什么

    Baby, baby, let me ask you: what do you call Daddy's daddy?

  • 宝宝宝宝妈妈的爸爸什么

    Baby, baby, let me ask you again: what do you call Mommy's daddy?

  • 爷爷奶奶姥爷姥姥他们他们

    Grandpa and Grandma on Dad's side, and Grandpa and Grandma on Mom's side—they all love me, and I love them too.

《去上海》 Train or Plane to Shanghai
HSK 2 ~2 min read 151 chars
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Meet Xiao Shang, who is heading back to Shanghai. She compares two ways to travel and tells us why she prefers the slower one. This story helps you practice comparing transportation in simple Chinese.

  • 中国人

    She is Chinese.

  • 老家上海

    Her hometown is Shanghai.

  • 上海人

    She is from Shanghai.

《苹果十九》 Waiting for iPhone 19
HSK 1 ~2 min read 99 chars
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Read this short story about people waiting in the rain for a new phone. You will practice numbers, time, and everyday vocabulary.

  • 晚上出租车大学那边苹果商店手机

    In the evening, I took a taxi to the Apple Store near the university to buy a phone.

  • 下雨大家没有回去

    It started to rain, but no one went home.

  • 明天苹果十九出来大家第一买到苹果十九

    The iPhone 19 comes out tomorrow, and everyone wants to be the first to buy one.

《很贵的苹果》 The Expensive Apples
HSK 1 ~2 min read 137 chars
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This short, simple story follows a shopper's trip to the supermarket to buy apples. You'll learn useful vocabulary for shopping, prices, and comparing things.

  • 她们苹果非常好吃

    They said the small apples were really delicious.

  • 知道

    She said she didn't know.

《一到十二月》 Twelve Months of Love
HSK 1 ~2 min read 108 chars
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Welcome! This short poem helps you practice the months, weekdays, and mealtimes in Chinese. Read it aloud and notice the rhythm. You already know many of these words!

  • 一年十二月

    A year has twelve months; I love you and miss you too.

  • 星期一天天喜欢

    From Monday to Saturday, I like you every day.

《这个苹果不是中国苹果》 Six Apples, Two Origins
HSK 1 ~1 min read 66 chars
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In this easy story, you will follow a simple trip to the supermarket to buy apples. Practice numbers, question words, and nationalities in a real-life shopping context.

  • 知道

    She said she didn't know.

《苹果十五》 Buying an iPhone in Beijing
HSK 1 ~1 min read 43 chars
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This short story follows a simple shopping trip in Beijing. You will learn words for buying a phone in Chinese.

  • 北京商店手机

    I bought a phone at a store in Beijing.

《星期七》 The Week Without Seven
HSK 1 ~2 min read 82 chars
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Before you read, try clapping the rhythm. This poem introduces the days of the week and a fun secret: Chinese has two names for Sunday, but no 'Week Seven'!

  • 知道星期可以星期

    If you want to know what day of the week it is, you can ask him.

《你好和再见》 Hello and Goodbye
HSK 1 ~1 min read 46 chars
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Before you start learning Chinese, master the most important phrases: greetings. This short dialogue shows you how to say hello and goodbye, and how to respond politely.

  • 你好!

    Hello!

《三号病房的苹果》 The Apple in Ward Three
HSK 1 ~3 min read 191 chars
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Enjoy this simple story about a patient and a mysterious apple. It shows how a small act of kindness can make someone feel at home, and you'll learn key words for feelings and daily life.

  • 桌子上老先生朋友天天

    On the table was a note written by the old man: "My friend, may you be well every day!"

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