qǐng v.

To request politely to meet or speak with someone. To invite or treat someone; used as "please" in polite requests. Speech (言) beside fresh, green grass (青) for courteous asking.

Common Usage & Traps

  • 请进 (qǐng jìn) — please come in
  • 请坐 (qǐng zuò) — please sit down
  • 请问 (qǐng wèn) — excuse me; may I ask
  • 请打电话 (qǐng dǎ diànhuà) — please make a phone call
  • 请你吃饭 (qǐng nǐ chīfàn) — invite you to a meal; treat you to food
  • 坐请 请坐

    Put 请 before the action, not after it.

  • 我请吃饭你 我请你吃饭

    When 请 means invite or treat, the person comes right after 请.

  • 请问你叫什么名字吗? 请问,你叫什么名字?

    请问 already opens a polite question; adding 吗 at the end doubles the question.

Does 请 go before or after the verb when it means 'please'?

Before the verb. 请坐 works; 坐请 sounds broken.

Put 请 in front of the action you want softened. 请坐, 请进, and 请打电话 all follow this pattern. If you move it after the verb, native ears hear broken word order. The story sign uses 请打电话给三号房间, where 请 sits before 打电话.

DimensionNaturalAvoid
Position请坐坐请
Phone request请打电话打电话请
Polite command请进进请

Does 请 only mean 'please'?

请 is not only 'please'. It also means to invite or treat someone.

我请你吃饭 means I am treating you to a meal. The person you invite comes right after 请: 请你, 请他. If you put the person after the verb, the sentence sounds broken. Use this pattern for meals, tea, and other treats.

DimensionNaturalAvoid
Meaning我请你吃饭 = I'm treating you我请你吃饭 = I'm just saying please eat
Word order我请你喝茶我请喝茶你
Person after 请他请我吃饭他请吃饭我

Does 请问 mean 'please ask'?

No. 请问 is your polite question opener, not a command to ask someone else.

请问 works like 'excuse me' before your own question. 请问,你叫什么名字? means you are asking the other person. To tell someone to ask a third person, say 你去问他. If you mean 'please ask him', 请问 is the wrong tool.

DimensionNaturalAvoid
Meaning请问 = excuse me, may I ask请问 = please ask
Position请问,洗手间在哪儿?洗手间请问在哪儿?
Question shape请问,你叫什么名字?请问你叫什么名字吗?

Appears in Stories 4 stories

Real context sentences across different daily scenarios and graded readings.

《谢谢您请》 (The Day 'Please' Stayed Home) HSK 1
~2 min read 132 chars
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Everyday greetings are a gateway to natural Chinese. Practice time-based hellos like “早上好” and “晚安,” learn to address teachers with the respectful “您,” and see how families skip formalities to speak warmly at home.

  • 这边请进请坐喝茶

  • 家人朋友关系谢谢客气在家说话不客气可以不说

《找“大白”》 (Looking for Big White) HSK 1
~5 min read 361 chars
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A young man helps an old man look for his cat. But the real surprise is why the old man wanted to find the cat. Read on to learn about kindness and friendship.

  • 看见我的大白猫大白打电话三号房间

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