n.
older brother; elder brother
哥哥
Older brother: in Chinese family culture, age hierarchy is baked into every word.
English has a generic word 'brother', but Chinese has zero generic words for siblings. You are forced to choose: older (哥哥) or younger (弟弟). In traditional culture, 哥哥 carries an image of responsibility and protection.
Cultural Context:
Calling a male friend '哥' (like 王哥) is a sign of friendly respect; but calling someone '哥哥' outside family sounds intimately playful, flirty, or childlike.
Common Usage & Traps
- 我的哥哥 — my older brother
- 王哥 / 李哥 — Brother Wang (polite, respectful for older male coworkers)
- 亲哥哥 — biological older brother
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我的大哥哥我的哥哥 / 我大哥Never say 大哥哥 for your own brother. 哥哥 already means older; 大哥哥 sounds like a cartoon character or a child talking to a neighborhood teen.
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公司的哥哥们公司的同事 / 各位哥Never call male colleagues 哥哥; it sounds wildly flirty or unprofessional.
Why can't I say "我的大哥哥" to mean "my big brother"?
哥哥 already means older brother! Adding 大 makes you sound like a toddler.
English speakers love translating 'big brother' word-for-word into 大哥哥. But in Chinese, 哥哥 already has 'older' baked right inside. If you have only one older brother, just say 我的哥哥. If you have several, number them: 大哥 (eldest), 二哥 (second eldest). Calling your own brother 大哥哥 sounds like a 5-year-old child!
| What You Mean | Natural Chinese | Awkward Mistake to Avoid |
|---|---|---|
| My older brother | 我的哥哥 (wǒ de gēge) | ✗ 我的大哥哥 |
| Eldest older brother | 我的大哥 (wǒ de dàgē) | ✗ 我的大哥哥 |
| Older boy in neighborhood | 大哥哥 (friendly child address) | Natural only for young kids |
Can I call a male coworker "哥哥" to sound friendly like saying "bro" in English?
Never! In a workplace, calling an adult man 哥哥 sounds overly intimate or flirty.
In English, 'bro' works with everyone from your gym buddy to a bartender. But in Chinese, doubling the word (哥哥) is strictly for family or romantic flirting. To be friendly with an older male colleague at work, attach 哥 to his surname: 王哥 (Brother Wang) or 张哥 (Brother Zhang). That sounds warm, professional, and respectful.
| Person | Natural Chinese | Embarrassing Mistake |
|---|---|---|
| Older male colleague named Wang | 王哥 (Wáng gē) | ✗ 王哥哥 / 哥哥 (sounds flirty!) |
| Older male stranger asking for help | 大哥 / 师傅 | ✗ 哥哥 |
| Your real older brother | 哥哥 | ✓ Natural |
Why does Chinese force you to distinguish 哥哥 (older) from 弟弟 (younger)?
Chinese has no umbrella word for "brother". Family hierarchy is built into every relationship.
In Chinese culture, age hierarchy determines your role and responsibilities in the family. An older brother (哥哥) has the duty to look after younger siblings; a younger brother (弟弟) shows respect. If you want to say 'I have brothers', you must say '我有哥哥和弟弟'. You cannot escape picking an age!
| Concept | Natural Chinese | Note |
|---|---|---|
| Older brother | 哥哥 (gēge) | Senior male sibling |
| Younger brother | 弟弟 (dìdi) | Junior male sibling |
| Brothers (general) | 兄弟 (xiōngdì) | Formal collective term |
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Real context sentences across different daily scenarios and graded readings.
This playful rhyme helps you learn family words in Chinese. Practice saying who's who with simple questions and answers!
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哥哥 和弟弟，姐姐和妹妹也是我家人，也是好朋友。
This simple story introduces you to a family and what each member likes to do. Learn helpful words for food and daily activities as you read about Grandpa, Grandma, Mom, Dad, and the kids.
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哥哥 爱唱歌。
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