你好

Common Usage & Traps

  • 你好 (nǐ hǎo) — Hello — the all-purpose opener
  • 你好,请问… (nǐ hǎo, qǐngwèn…) — Hello, may I ask… (polite opener before a request)
  • 你好,我是… (nǐ hǎo, wǒ shì…) — Hello, I'm… (self-introduction opener)
  • 你好吗? 你好! / 最近怎么样?

    As a casual 'How are you?' it sounds like a worried health check, not a greeting. Natives only use it when they genuinely wonder if something's wrong.

  • (接电话)你好 喂?

    Chinese natives answer the phone with 喂. Saying 你好 on a casual call sounds like a call-center script.

Why does 你好吗 sound strange when you just mean 'How are you?

你好吗 is a real health check, not the casual 'How are you?'

English speakers hear 'How are you?' and reach straight for 你好吗. That's a literal translation, not a real greeting. In Chinese, 你好吗 sounds like you genuinely worry they're sick. Natives save it for someone who's been ill or through a rough patch. For a casual check-in, 最近怎么样 works far better. You can also just say 嗨 or 好久不见 and skip the question entirely.

DimensionNaturalAvoid
Casual 'How are you?'最近怎么样? / 嗨你好吗?
Real worry about someone你还好吗? / 没事吧?你好吗?
Greeting a coworker in the hall你好你好吗?

When you pick up the phone, why do natives say 喂 instead of 你好?

Answer the phone with 喂, not 你好.

Pick up a ringing phone and Chinese natives say 喂, not 你好. 喂 is the phone-only 'hello', short and neutral. Saying 你好 on a call sounds like a call-center agent reading a script. It's fine on a business line, but odd when your mate rings you. Save 你好 for face-to-face meetings or a formal opening.

DimensionNaturalAvoid
Friend calls you喂?你好
Unknown or business number喂,你好 / 您好
Meeting someone in person你好

Does 你好 sound cold when you greet a close friend?

Saying 你好 to a close friend sounds stiff and distant.

你好 is polite and slightly formal, like a handshake you give an acquaintance. It works with strangers, shop staff, and new contacts you just met. Fire it at a close friend and you sound distant, almost sarcastic. Natives use 嗨, 早, or just their name instead. Same logic as texting a best mate 'Good day, sir'. “A:你好!” (A: Hello!) ── [《你喜欢看老电影吗?》](/read/do-you-like-old-movies#s1)

DimensionNaturalAvoid
Meeting a stranger你好嗨 (too casual)
Greeting a close friend嗨 / 早 / 最近怎么样你好
New coworker or client你好 / 您好

Appears in Stories 3 stories

Real context sentences across different daily scenarios and graded readings.

《谢谢您请》 (The Day 'Please' Stayed Home) HSK 1
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Everyday greetings are a gateway to natural Chinese. Practice time-based hellos like “早上好” and “晚安,” learn to address teachers with the respectful “您,” and see how families skip formalities to speak warmly at home.

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